RESOURCES

A calm, supportive space to learn, reflect, and move forward — one step at a time.

Divorce affects every corner of your life: your emotions, your finances, your confidence, your sense of direction. These resources are here to help you breathe a little deeper, understand your options, and begin rebuilding with clarity and strength.

Everything on this page is educational, encouraging, and grounded — created to support you during one of life’s hardest transitions.

FREE CLARITY RESOURCES

Divorce Housing
Clarity Quiz

Your first step when trying to answer: “Can I keep the house?”

This short quiz helps you reflect on the emotional, financial, and practical factors that matter most when deciding what to do with the marital home.

You’ll receive a personalized clarity outcome along with thoughtful next steps—so you’re not guessing or rushing into decisions that affect your future.

Mortgage Assumption
Basics: Video Training

What they are, who qualifies, and when they actually make sense in divorce.

Mortgage assumptions can be a powerful option in divorce—but they’re often misunderstood.

This video training explains:

  • What a mortgage assumption actually is

  • When it may be available

  • Common misconceptions

  • Why assumptions can fail even when the rate looks attractive

This is educational guidance designed to help you understand your options and ask better questions—not a loan application.

Educational content only. Mortgage lending is provided separately through my licensed mortgage practice.

EDUCATIONAL VIDEOS

& PODCASTS

YouTube Videos

Weekly videos with warm, clear guidance on:

  • Divorce emotional recovery

  • Co-parenting

  • Organizing finances

  • Rebuilding confidence

  • Understanding the marital home

  • Getting grounded during transitions

Latest Podcast

In this episode, I join Kate Anthony to unpack the truth about mortgage assumptions during divorce — what’s possible, what’s not, and how to protect your financial future when navigating the marital home. We break down the real-world lending guidelines that can make or break your post-divorce housing plan.

Podcast Features

Listen to Tami’s interviews with leading divorce, financial, and emotional wellness experts.

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Free Articles &

Blog Posts

Thoughtful guidance on:

  • The marital home

  • Navigating financial stress

  • Preparing for divorce conversations

  • Healing and rebuilding

  • Supporting your children

  • Understanding settlement impacts

  • Finding your footing again

IMPORTANT COMPLIANCE NOTE

Empowered Uncoupling provides general education, emotional support, and financial clarity during the divorce process.

This site does not provide mortgage lending, qualification, or rate advice.

If you are ready for:

  • A lender-approved mortgage plan

  • Refinance analysis

  • Assumption feasibility

  • Loan application

  • Lending guideline review

Please visit my licensed lending site:

© 2026 Empowered Uncoupling LLC.

Here to support, educate, and guide — never to replace legal, financial, or mortgage professionals.

Mortgage services are provided separately by Tami Wollensak, NMLS #1963450.